You may have tried to win over a girl in your neighborhood who everybody says is a hard-to-get-man -hater. The truth is that no girl doesn't have her good buttons that, when pressed will make her fall in love with you no matter what. It all starts with you. The way you carry yourself, relate to women, talk, walk and many other things will determine if you get that girl or miss the chance. We as men are in many cases enemies of our own. We fail to understand what girls want in the first place and go complaining that they are the ones that are hard to understand. The truth is if we took time to learn what they want, their psychology, their make up; we would win over every 7 out of 10 that we set to date.
1. Girls need warmth and friendliness-Fake it if you have to
One of the most important things with girls is how you appear to them. Are you creepy, interesting, have a sense of humor, boring or outright obnoxious? Depending on how you talk and relate to a girl, they will make a decision whether you are worth a date within the first 30minutes. Girls' nature is such that they cherish being given true and sincere warmth and charm. Il tell you this, it doesn't matter whether you have a Frankenstein's outlook. If you are warm to the girls, they will flock in their droves. Similarly if you are gloomy and moody, they will fly away like rattled pigeons in corn field.
2. The College Football Player Syndrome If you want to check if this is true, take a trip through memory lane when you were in college or even high school. Remember the guy that always seemed to hoard all the girls to himself. Yes, I mean him; that guy that was mostly in the company of not less than 5 girls. Al they had in them is the power to talk to girls in as if they were queens. This guy must have had a sense of humor to boot, coz girls won't just stand a bore, whiny and introverted guy. Well, you will need to practice to radiate warmth and all those around you (in our case subject-girls) will appreciate your company. Before you know it you will be getting laid more times than you can count.-if you don't have what it takes-FAKE IT.
3. Grab Her Attention - Be Creative
Imagine the advertising industry. A newspaper advertisement needs to grab the attention of the reader and fast. The first sentence or title of any advertisement is usually what achieves the goal of attracting the attention of the reader. So many people will run through a news paper without even stopping at the ad if the title does not stand out.
4. Always know that the game is crowded
Similarly, a beautiful gal will have so many requests to date that she has overtime become immune and just pass through them like routine of a machinist in a large production factory. You therefore need to stand out like that ad copy title sentence. I can hear you asking yourself, how do I stand out? One of the most efficient methods that I have that works with girls is to take your time and let her notice you over time.
This is the best strategy if you don't have the guts to rush in with the line" You look familiar, where did we meet?" If it's a deli where you see her everyday, be at your best manners, say thank you, please, pick a cloth when she drops one, go all the way...but say nothing. I mean don't rush anything; let her simmer by herself as she sizes you up. All along maintain a genuine friendliness. What you are doing in this instance is to let her make her own assessments without the feeling of pressure. When the tide is good and you ready, move in ever so carefully, with a line like you know I've noticed you are so dedicated to your work or something... Be creative.
5. Introduce Yourself to Her in A Friendly, Charming Way
The final step to winning that beautiful girl that you have been eyeing is to finally make verbal contact. I have always found it easier to introduce myself when the chick has already become more or less acquainted to my person. What I mean is that I make sure that the girl believes she knows me even before we have talked. This is mostly through her observing me as I play the passive participant. Once these passive acquaintances have been established then you are good and ready to introduce yourself. If you wait too long, she will think you are chicken. And you don't want that.
Next you will next to create a rapport or a conversational relationship. When doing the introductions and as you get to know each other beyond the casual meeting in the elevators, at the mall or at the college halls; you will need to maintain your friendliness and warmth. Always remember that a girl is mostly interested in how you say things and not what you say. Give your sentences that affectionate and yes emotional tone. I know for a hardcore, street brawler kind of a man, this sound like expecting a gust of storm in hell but you are the one chasing my friend, you either do it or forget winning her.
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